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Back in 2006, My journey took me to the Australian capital for an admissions interview for medical school. My plan was to arrange a place to stay upon arrival, however when I arrived, a big convention was taking place and all the youth hostels and cheap hotels had no vacancies.

Coming from the city-state of Singapore, I considered maybe I could bed down in the airport – but soon learned that airport, in contrast to Changi Airport, closes all night. With no idea how to proceed and growing worried, I hopped on a city-bound bus and began walking towards a gaming venue, thinking I could pass the night somewhere that was open through the night. That wouldn’t put me in the ideal condition for nailing the admissions interview the following day, but as a student on a tight budget, luxury accommodation was impossible.

Our society requires more folks like that woman.

Apparently, I appeared confused since a young woman noticed me loitering in downtown and inquired whether I needed help. I recounted my predicament and immediately she suggested I was welcome to sleep on the ground in her student dorm at the local university – an ideal turn of events, as that’s where my medical school interview would take place the next morning. She even offered some food: one of the stuffed baguettes she had from her work shift. I had access to a hot shower and somewhere safe and secure to sleep.

With hindsight, it’s clear to me the significant risk she took as a woman allowing a man who was a complete stranger crash at her place. Back then I existed within my own unawareness and not even thinking to the potential danger. As a dad now, I’m amazed she offered that help – and remain very grateful.

I didn’t end up attending ANU, and I lost touch with the student afterwards, but I’ve never forgotten her selfless deed of generosity. I hope the universe has rewarded her act of kindness tenfold. Our society requires more folks who show such kindness.